To save, or to be saved?

To write in any more detail would probably make it seem like I'm flame-baiting, so I won't go into the gory details, but...

Just something that came across my mind:
before deciding the need to "save" others, think about who really needs saving.

It's very difficult to accept the fact that individuals important to you can easily condemn others with such ludicrous 'reasons', for only a certain amount of 'blindness' lies within permissible limits.

It's also painful when that person doesn't see it no matter how much you wish for it.